New life together will require many adjustments. In
fact, not everything is not always as beautiful as a dream, but you
definitely get when "to get years ago Marriage Project" some advice from
Dr. Terri Orbuch, inventor, was quoted as saying the following Sheknows.1. Be open about moneySave yourself the trouble or just revenue could be catastrophic pair subsequently. A
study conducted a study on the happy couple just married, if their
partner is honest and open about the money and the answer is different
partners happy. 8
out of 10 couples happily say that they believe that their partner
always says everything about finance, when compared with another couple
who are not.
Basically, do not open or even lying about finances can cause big problems per day.
But not a few couples who are willing to feel some things to discuss.
2. Discuss minor problemsLittle
things like, do not put a wet towel in each country or toilet close
properly, it is the most frequent cause of friction between couples,
especially newlyweds. According to Dr. Terri Orbuch, it really can be a great measalah later. "My
research shows that couples who do not speak a little bit disturbing
about this, let him go, unhappy in great anger, not in their marriage,"
says Orbuch. Therefore, anything that bothers you, always try to discuss it properly.
3. The purpose of Everyday GratitudeOrbuch research also suggests that the simple accumulation of work that is essential to build a strong marriage. The
following ranking does not mean you have to give expensive gifts, but
make your partner something special with a kiss, a hug or a favorite
dish when he was doing something right.
A person feel more appreciated, the greater the desire to show his love.
4. have fun togetherAccording to research Orbuch, couples depicting happy life fun, because they can not do anything with her partner. Instead several together to make a lot of beautiful things are rare, do not feel .
"Looking to do together for a fun activity. Things like this can
reduce the routine of marriage and to make the connection between the
two of you stronger," ungkat Orbuch.
5. Extend FriendshipWith close ties with some friends and family best partner for your married life. "My research found that men, especially if his wife happy extended
good relationship with his family. In addition to some of the many
friends, much happier than those who often have banned a meeting point,"
said Orbuch.
Why expand the important relationship? Because
you closer to family and friends, more support, which can be taken if
you and your partner have a family problem, and it makes it easier to
handle.
